We are so privileged in this country to have such freedom.

I remember that day, we cheered. And then we heard about the cost and the casualties.

You need to know how you're gong to live, how you're going to cope.

You're a a reminder of something awful that's happened for the other wives.

It was the background in military life that developed and made it the relationship it was and is.

She was horrified and said "I'm going to do something about this".

It was thousands of pounds I missed out because it was over a 10 year period.

My older brother Harvey said I should get married because it was embarrassing, his words, embarrassing, having an old maid for a sister.

A lot of information that I should have been given, I wasn't.